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I'd rather my boyfriend used his imagination rather than porn

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Question - (15 June 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2012)
A female Australia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Does anyone share my views... I still think id rather my boyfriend use his imagination and think of other people than use porn, does anyone else have a similar view?

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A female reader, HappyPlace United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2012):

HappyPlace agony auntOf course they can use their imagination - what do you think they did before porn mags and the internet. We are all visual, and NO they don't need porn to get off, they just like it. If you read the links from person12345, you will see that men viewing porn need to constantly change what they are looking at to get aroused. Every new hit gets a reward of dopamine and so it becomes addictive. Then they start suffering ed problems etc because of re-wiring in the brain and they then only have the ability to get off looking at porn. Educate yourself on the matter. Someone said they don't remember the girls and use it only to get aroused - I'd say this is WRONG. Why do you think people like Jenna Jameson and other porn stars become so popular??

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (17 June 2012):

Moo's Mum agony auntMy last post sounds a bit man bashy and I didn't actually mean it like that. Men are very visual and need to actually see something rather than imagine it.

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (16 June 2012):

Moo's Mum agony auntMost guys don't have much imagination!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2012):

I just don't like him watching porn, being exposed to these beautiful perfect people.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (15 June 2012):

person12345 agony auntYes, I do. The website below explains it well and I have many links on my profile you might find helpful on this.

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (15 June 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntwell where do you want him to get these images from?

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