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writes:Hey everyone,I am 23 years old,this may sound wierd to many of u but I still have never had a real boyfriend..I have kissed two men but it was nothing,my first kiss was when I was 17 he was a celebrity and I used to watch his shows so we got talkin,he came to my city to see me and he made the move and kissed me(we only made out)that's it..he knew very well m not that type of a girl,we eventually stopped talkin,and then when I was in canada I met this guy he asked me out on a date and we kissed(now this guy really liked me)but for me something was missing,so then again we just made out..I do talk to him on msn..a couple of men have asked me out but I'v not found the 'one'..and now I really think I am ready to have my first real relationship but unfortunately I haven't found that guy yet..Ps:a couple of creeps were after me in my university to get rid of them I told them I have a bf and the news spread like wildfire so everyone things I have a bf who I'm seeing for 3 years..I wish I did but I don't have anyone..I don't knw I feel I am not that approachable!or I am just expecting too much frm a guy..I remember there was this guy who was really hot when he left uni he told me liked me but dint make a move cuz I dint give him any sign..may be I'm losing out people cuz I am not to open abt how I feel..how do I overcome this?
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (16 June 2012):
 Who cares? It's your life. You do what you want to do, and I'll do what I want to do.
But seriously, you should go to the beach and work out. Go for long swims and get fit and strong and guys will notice you.
I don't know. No-one ever listens to me.
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reader, mooh +, writes (15 June 2012):
Some body language can help to show a particular guy you fancy him: flirty attitude, smiling, being a positive person, teasing, a few compliments, laughing and joking, a bit of physical contact (like hugs or touching his arms), spending some time with a potential date to get to know him.
Just keep in mind that if you are always in the position of "waiting"/ being passive then the probabilities of meeting a potential boyfriend are very slim, so sometimes you need to make things happen (or give a little push).
Another thing is that thinking too much about having a boyfriend can be counterproductive by putting too much pressure on yourself.
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reader, Ayan Ganguly  +, writes (15 June 2012):
 How often do you smile...if it's rare then try to fix a smile on your lips..it costs nothing...remove the frown from your face..if you have got one...and if people still find hard to approach you...don't worry you'll get the person who would have the courage to say you the magical words.
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