My bf cheated on me, please help, I feel sick, nauseous and ill!

A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Dear all, I guess I just want to share this with you and get your views. I checked my BF's of over a year and a halfs emails a couple of nights ago and he had emailed a girl saying hi babes, and then went on to say that she must remember him as he had slept with her about a year ago andthey had met off a dating site , and he would like to meet up and sleep with her again. ( it then went into lurid sexual details of what they did and what he wnated to do again)I was devastated. I confronted him with it and he said he met and slept with her before he met me, then he said he had come across her email and just emailed her.he also told me he is not good for me, and that I deserve more and that he does ot feel good enough for me. I asked him why he felt the need to do that and he said he did not feel the need and was acting sheepish, and I was crying, and I feel that he has been doing this all along as I have had my suspicions which were now proved right. I feel so bad and am really suffering and my work is suffering as i can never ever trust him again and ended it by email last night and told him he is dead to me, but I feel like hell and my work is suffering, and I am unable to function properly, plus he loves a few mins down the road from me which means I will bump into him at some point. he did not respond to the email and has not even attempted to apologise. I feel sick, nauseous and ill. Please help. I am so jealous and can;t belive he has betrayed me like this. xx

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