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writes:dear cupid, im married for about a year now with the most loving and caring husband.. Now im pregnant. Recently, my husband and i just moved in our new house. I am sometimes bored in our house. So i thought to open my husbands old laptop.. There i saw his pictures that ive never seen before.. old pictures 2 years ago..i saw pictures where he traveled and what shocked me was that I a picture of his penis entering a vagina. I know this is already his past but it makes me jealous i should not have tinkered his laptop or opened his laptop..im hurt and disturbed.. Im thinking is this just my hormones because im pregnant.?? another thing, he let me borrow his celphone because my celphone is outdated his is a smartphone, i just found out he has a facebook account i dont want him to have a facebook account! He has 14 friends some are young girls.Because there he will meet sexy girls .i am 30 and his agge is 47. am i over jealous? Or is ,y self esteem is getting low because now im fat because im pregnant? I dont look myself as sexy nowadays..
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for all your answers.. Im just worried if i confront him he will be angry because i was snooping in his things without permission.. Also i think past is past.i can never change it. He is 47 me may have been many sex life before me. i know that it is his penis because i know the face of his penis.. And the picture was taken from his camera.it was not downloaded from a porn site. I too had a sex life with another man before we met.About his facebook i try to talk about to him..
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (16 June 2012):
 How do you know it's his penis in the picture. I can't imagine it's possible to take a picture of your own penis in action. It's time for you to ask a few questions of him as there should be nothing but trust between you both.
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reader, daletom +, writes (15 June 2012):
First of all - many, perhaps most, guys think that pregnant women are especially attractive and sexy. If you think that "pregnant" is the same as "fat", you haven't looked very closely! It IS possible that your husband has the opposite opinion, but don't assume that's the case.
Second - what you found is a cause for some concern, but don't blow it out of proportion. Don't think in terms of "confronting" him, but it is probably time for a serious, adult conversation.
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