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writes:My wife does not trust me and I do tell white lies sometimes , I have never cheated on her I tell her that I love her and she just says o thanks!! I used to watch some porn and now just get emails for freinds with some pictures of woman, She found that in my jokes and went off. I did call my ex wife about 2 yrs ago and she was mad for months and still brings it up sometimes and I know I was in the wrong. I do love her!! What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2012): If you always tell the truth, you never have to remember anything.
If you have to hide anything or withhold information from your wife, then you should not be doing it, looking at it or talking to it in the first place.
It's pretty simple, just be honest, talk to her about everything, respect your wife and don't give her any reasons to not trust you.
you have to do whatever it takes to regain her trust...and you do it until, not for a while and revert back to your old behaviors....
all these "white lies" and flat out lies, withholding truths...it all catches up eventually. It's so much easier to lie, which is why people do it, but if you aren't doing anything wrong in the first place it can be just as easy to tell the truth.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 June 2012):
 You must stop lying about anything at all...
and you must talk to her about all of this come clean beg for a fresh start then earn her trust back.
it will take a long time... if ever...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (16 June 2012):
 You stop lying and stop doing things that upset her. It's not a white lie if you've done something wrong and then lie about it...
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reader, teenah chung  +, writes (16 June 2012):
 Hello !
Its because she is too possesive. Women tend to show such behaviour when husband lessens his attention for her ! Make her your fren not wife. Ask her to stay trendy. Ask her to surprise you and you do the same. Make her feel "you are the one Im ready to die for ! " Ask her direct questions answer her direct.." Don't lie... never lie !
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (16 June 2012):
 What do you do??
Stop telling lies and doing stupid shit that you know will upset her...
That's what you do!!!!
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