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Can you like a person and yet have sex with someone else?

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Question - (12 June 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 June 2012)
A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

this girl wants to have sex with me because she told me, she also told me she had been hinting at it before, this is just a no strings attached casual meeting for sex (i think/hope) seing as we both find each other attractive and know each other fairly well, we both agreed we would inform each other of a free house for a 'meeting ;)' and we arranged to meet up at her house while her perants and sister are out for the day, but i dont think she is commited , if i kknow what she is like she wont let me know and wont follow through with this proposal, and if i am right, why would she say should would 'F**k' me??? so i messaged her this mornign asking if she has heard anymore about her free house on the weekend and she isnt replying... is she leading me on?

also when i check facebook i see that she is commenting and liking other boys status's and wrting love hearts on ther walls and such (so i know she has recived my message), wich makes me think she fancys other boys, ifso then why agree to meet me for sex? surely you cant like some-one and have sex with some one else?? ... can you...?

what should my next move be? cos i realy wanna have sex with her, im sure she does me from previous messages, she seemed sooooooo eager and even gave me a time for the meeting, should i just wait til the weekend with no communication with her? or shall i send her another message in a couple of days ? or what? thanks

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A female reader, hopeless romantic 101 United States +, writes (13 June 2012):

umm if you've already asked her in a message and she hasn't replied then just don't write her again and wait for her to reply. Don't seem to pushy about it that will just turn her off, be cool.If she doesn't contact you by that day of your "meeting" then shes just teasing you some girls do that. MY guess is that she is because shes probably teasing those other guys she is writing hearts too also. But the thing about teases is they like to be chased, if you continue to chase her she will keep teasing but if you play it cool that will make her notice you more than those other guys and she probably will sleep with you lol.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (12 June 2012):

eyeswideopen agony auntI think she is a tease, I would take what she says with a grain of salt. I also would try to find a relationship first before thinking about the sex, not with her, but in general.

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