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writes:Hy aunts,i have a little problem that i wil be happy if given some helpfull advice.My question goes.do teenagers suffer from erectile dysfunction?Im 19 and its the second time i'm having sex the thing goes like,i wil have an erection but i wil just cum within 60secs..is this normal? And when i cum,it takes an awful of a long time to get another erection.and when i finally get the erection its just a soft one,soft erection.my dad and mum are doctors i have ask them and they say is more of a physcological than physiological problem,mum said i was just nervous and anxiety too causes that too.thats why? But i stil have doubts with their answers.so am i suffering from erectile dysfunction coated with premature ejaculation or is this normal for the beginners?i will be having another sex soon and i dont want it to be another failure,sure most people had lose their girlfrd becos they suck in the bed.and give advice on how to control premature ejaculation.Thanx for your help.
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reader, Htsn47  +, writes (12 June 2012):
 It's normal, don't worry. Most young men get used to fairly quick orgasms because of masturbation, and then of course there is a lot of excitement with early sexual experiences too. So ejaculating quickly is not uncommon at all, or anything to worry much about. It's only your second or third time, right? What's happening is OK, common, and not anything to get yourself worried about.It's also not any worry that you can't get a full erection for a while after ejaculating - it's called a "refractory period" while your body recovers. It's biological, not psychological. The amount of time varies from man-to-man, and with age. I think the average is about 30 minutes but it varies a lot.Don't forget that you can do lots, probably *more*, for your partner with your hands and/or mouth than with your penis. Most women (I'm assuming you are heterosexual although you didn't mention, no offense intended!) can't reach orgasm from penetrative sex alone. So be sure to give your partner the attention she needs...
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