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writes:Did he cheat?I have been with my boyfriend 6 months officially. I am in love with him but there is something I cannot get out of my head. When we first were together he stayed at a girl mates house with her pretty friend and also with his friend after they had all been out drinking. He told me nothing happened. But this keeps playing on my mind as I just found out he was flirting with her friend all night .... I do not know what happened when they got back to the house all I found out was that he was flirting with her all night in the club. He still says nothing happened and they slept in different rooms but I don't believe this is it! Should I let it go as it was at the start and we were not in love as since then he has been the best boyfriend ever. Or do I get out now as he is maybe a liar? Please help :-(
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (12 June 2012):
 Why do you not believe him?
what gives you cause to not believe him something he's done or your past experience with ex boyfriends who did cheat?
or is this your own insecurity? you call the other woman "her pretty friend" like being pretty is the criteria for sex... truth is with many men, BREATHING is the criteria.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (12 June 2012):
 Let it go for now but my advise is, don't let him go party alone with those girls anymore. If he goes out you must go too. If he didn't last time, he might next time. Alcohol seriously impairs the judgement for most guys.
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