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writes:Im dating a guy for a couple of months now, i really love him but i don't know about him. My problem is he doesn't want to change his relationship status on facebook, i don't want to confront him to seem im nagging. i don't know if he's dating someone else. He changed his relationship status when he was dating a different girl, i just don't know why he doesn't want to change his relationship status when he's dating me. Why doesn't he want to change his relationship status? Please advice me on this
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reader, hopeless romantic 101  +, writes (13 June 2012):
There might be someone he doesn't want to see that he is in a relationship. if he did it for another girl but not for you maybe its the other girl who he doesn't want knowing he has moved on. He could be holding on to feelings for someone else.Maybe he doesn't want commitment right now. But you'll have to ask him about it to make sure its not nagging just don't argue and ask a simple question "why wont you change your relationship status"? Ill tell you right now if he gives you a bunch of excuses that don't make sense or if he says "its not important to him" then examine your relationship because if he cares about you anything important to you should be important to him and he shouldnt see it as nagging
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (12 June 2012):
 Probably too soon in your relationship to close that door. How long was he with the other woman before he changed his status? It was probably more than 2 months. Give it time and don't nag him about it. Guys hate it when we harp.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (12 June 2012):
 Please get off Facebook and stop putting so much emphasis on it. It means absolutely nothing. If it is so important to you and your boyfriend, I would suggest stepping outside and getting a real life instead of living a virtual one on Facebook all the time. Why in the world would changing something on Facebook matter in real life??? Ask him directly why he hasn't changed it then let it drop. I agree with AuntyEm about trust. Trust is the important thing...if you don't have it you'd might as well call it quits.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (12 June 2012):
 Why does it matter so much? when you are out together do you make him wear a sign around his neck saying he is in a relationship with you?
Trust is probably the most important thing to make a happy relationship, it has nothing to do with a website. If you love him and trust him, you would not care about such a trivial thing.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 June 2012):
 The only person that is able to answer this question for you is him I am afraid. If you are both only dating at the moment and you are not in a committed relationship well then I can see why he would not want to change it, I would be the same until I was in a serious relationship. Maybe he just feels it is nobody else's business what his love life is, or maybe it is a case that there is something he is hiding. If it is bothering you this much then I think you just need to talk to him about it.
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