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*olly9945
writes:Hello all! I have a question about sex. I'm kinda new to it and though everything is good(we both enjoy it) I don't know what I Can do during sex so he's not doing all the work when he's on top. Is it just inevitable that I can't do much but move my hips a little, or is there something I can do so he can relax and I can do some work. I just always feel bad that he's not having a good time and I try to make up for it through oral sex, but I don't feel like its enough :/
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reader, person12345 +, writes (13 June 2012):
 Has he complained? I asked my bf how he feels about this difference in work and he goes, "It feels amazing, why the heck would I care? Whatever feels good!" I mean men do tend to feel more physical pleasure from penetration than women anyways, it's a lot easier to do that work when you're really turned on/close to orgasm than when you're not.
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reader, Molly9945 +, writes (13 June 2012):
Molly9945 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI get on top a lot but he always does work too, I'm just asking if there is anything I can do o bottom that will help. But trust me, on top is my favorite position lol
Thanks for the advice
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (12 June 2012):
 Yes, if it isn't painful for you (sometimes it is more pleasurable)and you are willing, I would get on top. You can control everything from there. Plus, your guy will love watching you. There are all kinds of positions you can try where the guy doesn't have to do the work.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (12 June 2012):
PC muscles. Also moving your hips "a little" makes a lot of difference! While there is a way for him to relax while you do the work when he's on top, it's much simpler for you just to be on top instead. If you've never done it before, it's not like in the movies where you just sit up and use your thighs/hips only, you should prop yourself up with your hands/elbows and lean forward.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 June 2012):
 Its simple, change position and you go on top. Take turn about, I think that is only fair.
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