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writes:There's this guy I've been talking to for about a week. We had kinda been interested in each other for awhile, but I started talking to him one day. He seemed extremely happy I talked to him, he said I was gorgeous and he was shy to talk to me first, and he was complimenting me a lot and being so sweet. One night, I said I had to go, and he texted me the next day, and for the past few days it was perfect, he even expressed interest to go out sometime and meet me. And the other night we were having a deep conversation, and we both opened up to each other. He told me that I was perfect, and amazing, and that I made his week, but that he has to go because he was tired, and he really wanted to talk to me in person and meet me. He told me talking to me was a dream come true. And then he promised he would text me the next day, and I said I would look forward to it, and he agreed and said he would talk to me the next day. But the next day, nothing. He was busy, going to a concert and driving back from the mountains. And I texted him, because I didn't reply to his text where he said I was special and I made his week. I asked him if he was in the mountains, and he said: No I'm back now sorry for not texting you I'm at this concert right now:)we talked for a bit, and he stopped replying. So I'm not really sure what to think now, because it seems like everything was fine, it might still be...but I can't tell.
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reader, MissTellAll  +, writes (8 July 2012):
 Calm down! Only talking for a week so don't let yourself get wrapped up. If he isn't replying, so be it. Distract yourself doing something fun so when he does reply (or even if he doesn't you can say "Oh, it's been three hours? Who knew?"
He has a life outside of talking to you amd yyou should open your time up the same way. And I reiterate my first point- calm. Things will work themself out :)
Good luck!
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reader, reb1018 +, writes (8 July 2012):
I wouldn't read to much into it. Chances are he was genuinly busy. I wouldn't text him until he texts you again. If he is truly interested... he will find a way to get in touch with you. I know its difficult not to text and see if something is wrong but some people are just busy.
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reader, Nik3 +, writes (8 July 2012):
I dont know but my gut feeling is that there may be someone else that he is trying to let go of completely first. He was being truthful with you when he said you made his week and that you were a beautiful woman but he has some issues that he needs to deal with first. Just give him time. It will all come out. Guys dont like to be pressured so in time he will come around.
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reader, malletchick76 +, writes (7 July 2012):
 I hated it when guys did that. Just move on. Seems to me that he's toying with you... or getting flack from his buds. If he's interested, let him text you. You'll find a guy who won't be able to stop calling or hanging out with you to the point where you get annoyed :)
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