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female
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30-35,
*ammyj
writes:I'm living in a house with 4 boys for the summer, and last week my housemate's cousin moved in. It's early days so I'm not sure what he thinks of me but we get along well, and I've started to really fancy him.I've been single for three years for a lack of findings someone who was good enough to settle for. This boy ticks a lot of the boxes, he's intelligent, interesting, deep-thinking, and hardworking, things which I haven't found in anyone else. We are only going to be living together for less than two months. Do you think it's worth pursuing my crush, or should I leave it? I'm worried about it getting awkward or either of us getting hurt.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 July 2012):
 Sometimes it is just not a smart idea to go after someone that you have to live with, for the reasons that you mentioned, as if it goes wrong you both need to deal with it living together which yes can get very awkward indeed. However you will only be living together for less that two months therefore I think you should go for it. At the end of the day you have nothing to lose. Just flirt with him a little and show some interest and see if he responds back. Good luck.
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