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writes:So, there are two guys I like. We'll call one of them Jake, and one of them Josh. I have liked Jake for awhile, but we have never really met, only seen each other around school before. But last week I started talking to him, and he clearly expressed interest and wants to make a plan in the future to hang out with me. But he hasn't clearly stated he likes me or anything, or that he wants me to be exclusive with him. Meanwhile, this other guy, Josh, we've been talking for a couple weeks, and I was kinda falling for him, and this was before I even started talking to Jake. (even though I had liked Jake for longer) anyways, I've been hanging out with Josh a lot, he's sweet and a really great guy, I just don't know if I feel that spark for him. But yesterday, I thought I did and I got myself into a situation. We were sitting in his apartment, and he was asking me to be his girlfriend. We kissed a little bit, but I'm not even sure if I would consider it hooking up. We talked a lot too. But he's friends with some friends that Jake has in common. My question is, would Jake be mad if he found out? He hasn't really stated he wants me to be his yet...
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reader, person12345  +, writes (7 July 2012):
 He'd probably take it as a hint that you don't like him back and he'd back off.
If you like Jake you need to let him know and ask him out before he loses interest. It's silly to wait around for guys to pursue you when you can easily go after them yourself! They're just as afraid of rejection as you are. So go ask him out.
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