A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I'm 17 this year and during my whole life my family and most of my friends treat me like some stupid dumb girl. I'll admit that i am blur when it comes to alot of things but my examination results are above average and considered smart. My brother is very smart so my parents love him and they always insult me about how stupid lazy irresponsible worthless i am and they once said they wish i was never born.i am the punchbag of the family like when whoever is in a bad mood they put it on me yells and slap me. I just went with it. My friends always use me and insults me in every way they can. I don't know Why they treat me like that. I'm a quiet girl in school and not very popular as i don't have many friends. I'm known to guys only for my looks not to brag but yea. Cause of that my friends always say like what do guys see in you? Your short retarded blur and stuff. I just can't take it. My friends and my family. Why do people treat me like that when I've done nothing to Them?my friend say i must learn to stand up for myself or i will always be this worthless girl. So is that the solution? Standing up for myself? I don't know... Please advice.
View related questions:
my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks!! :)
A
female
reader, Fredthefrog  +, writes (7 July 2012):
Well.... Let me tell you this: you are not anybodys punching bag, you should never be used like this and if they are your 'friends' you would hope they are nice to you so maybe they aren't such good friends!
What you need to do is tell people that you don't want to be treated like that! From what you said youre obviously pretty so use this to your advantage by if people say they dont know what boys see in you, say oh maybe it's my good looks! You have gotta change who you are and to do that you have gotta tell people you don't like being treated as a punchbag! This includes telling your family! Go for it girl!
...............................
|
