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26-29,
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writes:A while ago I started seeing a school friend but it was really brief only a few weeks and he started seeing someone else. So I was annoyed at him for dumping me and cheating on me with this ottper girl (kinda why we broke up but he didn't know I knew) and he was really mean after telling everyone I was desperate and pathetically obsessed with him. Then when she dumped him a month or so back he phoned me asking for advice cus he couldn't speak to anyone else. So I took pity on him and we went on another date as a rebound but it didn't work and we didn't talk much. Then it was my prom the other day and I needed advice on how to let someone down gentle as a family friend had a sled me to go with him but I felt uncomfortable about it and he told me to go with him as he wanted to asked me before but bottled it. So anyway I got there and he could barely look at me and in the end managed to say awkward sentences before I walked off. So being pretty annoyed at him blowing me off I enjoyed the night with friends instead. So not thinking about him as I was leaving he stopped me at the door saying he wanted to say goodbye before he left and gave me a really big hug. So at the after party with some friends they stole my phone and texts him saying I wish he had dance with me or spoken to me. I thought nothing of it until I got a message this morning saying he was really tempted to but bottled it. I've realised that I still have feelings for him and don't know what to do because though he seems really cocky its like he gets really shy as he has blown me off so many times. What should I do I'm sick of him getting spooked and want to tell him how I feel without him either shutting me down or like last time telling everyone how pathetic I am ? I'm sorry this is so long I just thought that our complicated history was important
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reader, kaiti30  +, writes (7 July 2012):
 There is aways hope! he seems like he likes you too?Just embarresed or scared around you. hes not sure what to do with the feelings he has, but honestly i would talk to him about these feelings... but i also wouldnt put aside that he's broken your heart, forgive but never forget, i know because my boyfrined has cheated on me two years ago and sometimes when you love/like someone you need to forgive the unforgiveable... goodluck!
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