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30-35,
*lsergin
writes:I really need some help. There is this girl that im falling in love with. Ido not know if she likes me but she did say i was an amazing guy. We havent seen each other lately. I want to ask her to be my girlfriend but do i wait until i see her again or should i ask her through text? p.s. she really doesnt text back sometimes.
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reader, hammyj  +, writes (7 July 2012):
There isn't really enough evidence for me to judge whether she might like you too. Saying that you're an amazing guy could be something you would also say to a friend. What context did she say it in? How often do you see her? I don't think you should text her to ask her to be your girlfriend. I think you should be patient and look for more signs to see if she likes you. It can be hard if you like her so much to take a step back, but I don't think it would be good to seem to eager, this could put her off. Wait and look for more signals, and if you are sure she likes you, ask her out.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 July 2012):
 Yep, do not text her... pick up the phone call her and ask her out...
if it goes well....
lather
rinse
REPEAT...
in other words.. just start spending time together and see how it goes...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (7 July 2012):
 Don't jump straight to girlfriend, just ask her out on a date. You can do it however you feel comfortable.
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (7 July 2012):
 Let me tell u a short story..
There was this guy who really liked me,I dint know that cuz he never told me directly,I thought he was an amazing guy too but I dint tell him anything as well..
He would text and sometimes I would reply sometimes I wouldn't,most of the time I wouldn't reply cuz I wld think to myself why can't this guy just ask me out,that's what I wanted the text to be,eventually he got done with university and left to michigan..its only after he reached there did he confess he liked me but never had the courage to ask me out cuz according to him I never dropped any hints neither did I read between lines..sooo pleasee if u like this girl go ahead and tell her you do,sometimes when it comes to expressing girls may not be that good,they like a man who can woo her..!what r u goin to lose even if she said no,u'l no I did what I had to,and if that's not what she wants then its ok I'l find my girl..
And you will:) so do it before its too late..
Text her if ur not comfortable talking..
Say hey there is this new restaurant opened up and I was wondering if you would like to come with me,like a date with a wink..so in this way ur getting ur point across and not sounding tooo serious which doesn't give her a chance to say what she wants..
All the best,keep us posted x
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