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writes:My girlfriend, 20 years lost her job last year and hasnt been able to find consistent work since. She came up to me a few weeks ago after talking to one of her friends about joining the porn industry. She is very interested and actually determined to do it but said she would still respect my decision if I oppose. She actually did the auditioning and all the required testing last week and is now very interested. Initially, I thought the pay would be ok but the offer they are making is staggering. It would really help us financially. With her base salary, bonuses, appearances... she probably won't have to work after 3-4 years in the business. I researched this particular agency and the consensus is that they are very good to their employees, don't recycle actress/actresses every couple of years and provide great benefits. They are also giving her a trip to Florida next week.It'a a very attractive proposition and she seems very excited about it. My major concerns are that this will ruin our relationship?Also the long hours? She is expected to perform 5 days/week. Also, I have concerns about STD's. I understand they test all their actors every 3 months and they tested her just for the audition, but what happens in the meantime? I think there's still a huge risk.I am very concerned about it all and although she is asking for my blessing, it looks like she already made up her mind since she told her friend she was going to FL next week, a trip only reserved if you accept the offer.Is this a losing proposition or should I just share her excitement?
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (11 July 2012):
 Hurry!! you need to hurry and tie the knot bro!! like QUICKLY!! as possible, that way if she does bare down and decide to kick you to the curb, you can get some alimony out of your encouragement and your standing beside her and telling her she can do it, cause you know how this story will go bro, and I hope im wrong, and i could very well be not knowing either one of you, but as the previous aunt stated, more then likely, she will change IMMENSELY!! and will eventually find you boring, and or find someone else, possibly someone she works with more entertaining, and want to be with them, so you better get your ass thinking out a strategy here, either marry her ass, or your gonna have to use her to get yourself a try out, and get into the biz yourself!!! that's personally what I'd be looking into if it were me, but id never really believe id be with her for long after this career starts. sorry just being realistic, either way,you better use it to your advantage while the opportunities there.
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reader, damn him  +, writes (11 July 2012):
should you both go ahead with this...you have as good as sold your soul to the devil. no im not religious and im no brain surgeon. but the money will become addictive..you will soon get over whos screwin who. but while the good times roll and they will. nothing lasts for ever.
and guess who is gong to be left out of the party when after hundreds of different men. she finds a man she decides is very different...more different than all others even her own man.
so if the worst happens you have no income,no partner,no home and a partner who has somehow changed?
i have known plenty of girls that have done this for a living and within years they loose something innocent and dont seem to care the way they use to.its like there is nolonger a person behind their eyes. and not one didnt end up with a drug problem...sad facts
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (9 July 2012):
Bro are you bullshitting us? so how does your old lady just go out job hunting one day, and in between Old Navy and Olive Garden land a full time job as an adult entertainment actress, not having any prior knowledge, or experience? sounds a little bit like the truth is being stretched(THIS IS A TOPIC THAT JUST CANNOT BE DISCUSSED WITHOUT PUN'S, ITS IMPOSSIBLE SORRY)So your girl just went to the try out's, made the cut, and has to report to training by a certain day? I mean if this is 100% true, and your being straight up(sorry again)about this, WOW!! it truly is an incredible occurrence, success in the adult entertainment industry is absolutely flipping the coin, but breaking into the adult entertainment industry is also a flip of the coin, sure anybody can shoot themselves fucking, and call it porn, but to get signed to a contract, as a free agent, and do short backup rolls in a movie by even a small to mid major adult entertainment company is something of an achievement, so im assuming she is doing a free agent type deal? or did she get signed straight up(no pun again)by an actual company? regardless, if what you say is true, and she is in, actually in the biz, bro you just got the break of a lifetime, if your secure enough that you can watch your soul mate, take it doggy style by a chiseled muscular guy, with a 10" cock, while a 9"cock resides in either her ass or mouth, then watch them shoot their buckets of load, inside her, and all over her tits and face, then come home, and kiss you, and have sex with you, and you don't feel even the slightest feelings of weirdness, then looks like you just hit the big time boy, congratulations BTW, you have your path practically set for you, considering your girl takes full advantage of the shot she's been given, and stand's out, as long as she doesn't come out flat(sorry again) maybe you can keep her fresh and full of energy and motivation, it's all on you bro.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2012): for gods sake why does she want to go of the deep end all at once(no pun intended).why doesn't she start with photograph modelling and stripping and many soft porn stuff before trying the hard stuff.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 July 2012):
 Hello!
Listen, I'm not going to judge your girlfriend or you. It is an attractive industry, and finding a good company is hard to do. So I understand why this would be such a conundrum. While a lot of people are like "EWW", millions and millions of people love porn. Those porn stars have to come from somewhere! So I'm not trying to judge anyone here.
Most porn stars end up married to other porn stars, because inside of the industry they can understand their job. It would be very difficult for a lot of people to deal with their girlfriend having sex with tons of other people, learning certain crazy skills, experiencing many shapes and sizes and looks, and faking it with unabandoned passion. Can you handle that? I think the only way this should be okay with you is if you are 110% enthusiastic about this as well. To be accepting of this, would not mean tolerating her job, but being excited about it. Some men get very turned on by the thought of their woman with someone else. Are you that kind of guy?
I think you have a lot of thinking to do. And if there's any part of you that doesn't feel good about this, that's the part to listen to. Because money will come and go, but that feeling will last forever. So think long, deep and hard (sorry for the pun... it was uncalled for).
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2012): Your point about testing every three months - you are right to be worried! Just google porn stars and HIV and you will see just how many get it EVEN WITH THE TESTING!! It is not safe and no amount of money is worth catching a disease that puts her and your life at risk. Seriously google it as you can find stuff to show her just how serious a risk going into porn is and hopefully change her mind.
Guys are going to be sleeping with her, minus any protecti
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (8 July 2012):
well bro, this is something you can only answer, why are you asking us? can you handle knowing your girlfriend is getting turned inside out by guys that are 5 times bigger then average, then on top of that it is being filmed, so everyone you know might come acrossed it(no pun) you better be one secure and confident ****** If you think you'll ever live through this one, not many people i believe would be able to, not to mention this exposes her to an entirely different world then either of you have ever known before, she will be hobnobbing with porno execs, famous people, and people with a lot of money, if I were you, honestly bro, id tell her to send you a plane ticket when she hits the big time, and I would go about my life, and go do whatever it is id be doing if i weren't with her.If she truly loves you, then when shes made it big and is successful, she will come back for you.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (8 July 2012):
 Yuck and ewwww, how many men (and/or women etc etc) is she going to have plough through her before she comes home to you at the end of the day five days a week.
You say she was tested for STDs before the audition, maybe she should have been tested AFTER as well!
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