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writes:My bf's first gf i.e A broke his heart so he has been playing with the feelings of girls since then, A and i have become good friends and she told me she was the one who broke my guy's heart because she isn't in love with him but with someone and said 'i know you are the one who can heal his heart, he has a fragile heart' im in love with this guy but i don't know how to heal his heart. she told me, my guy denied our relationship when she asked him. Im confused of what to do. How can i heal my bf's heart? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (26 July 2012):
 I too agree with Cerberus. I wouldn't buy into this 'heal his heart' clap trap. Only he can do that. And the ex girlfriend might have suggested it to heal her own guilty conscience. She doesn't have to feel bad about hurting him if she knows someone else is looking after him.
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (26 July 2012):
 If he is denying he is with you, your "boyfriend" isn't over the other woman yet. You need to have a serious talk with him. It's not fair to you to keep stringing you along if he isn't interested in you.
Like Cerberus said...YOU can't heal someone's heart. Only he can do that. You need to move on if he is going to play this game.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 July 2012):
You can't heal him. He has to do it himself.
To be honest though, are you sure she broke his heart as much as he'd like you to think? Because it doesn't sound like he has all that much respect for women if he's sleeping around and such. If he's broken and using women, then that's no good to you. If he's denied the relationship to her, that's no good to you either.
My feeling is that he's not all that great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2012): this is ridiculous
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2012): For a start, you being friends with the one who broke his heart, isn't going to help matters either. You need to move forward with him and leave his ex girlfriend in the past where she belongs.
All you can do is tell him and prove to him you won't hurt him the way she did, but only he can attempt to allow himself to trust again.
If he can't do that, then he will never settle with anyone and will continue to play with peoples feelings the way she did his, because its all he will ever know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2012): You can't OP, that was a pretty stupid thing for her to say to be honest. Life isn't like a movie or book OP, the only people we can heal are ourselves.
Forget about this healing heart bullshit, you have some serious questions to ask him specifically why the hell he would deny your relationship to her and after he gives you his bullshit excuse ask him if he's actually over her or not.
That's a very bad sign that he would deny you to his ex OP, don't let that slide.
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