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writes:My bf and I have been together for 2 years we have a baby together and we plan to get married in June 2013. But he has been acting strange getting mad at me all the time for asking him questions like where are you going ? That sort of thing he has cheated on me before but we got passed that I'm scared he is cheating again. I live him and want to make this work but if he is cheating on me I don't want to raise my baby with him. What should I do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 July 2012):
 He has cheated on you in the past, and even though you say you both worked through it, it will still play on your mind and make you wonder if he is doing it again. Are there any other signals that might suggest he is cheating, you say he gets angry at you if you are asking him where he is going, and things like that, but could it be that maybe you are not giving him space to breathe and you are always asking him. Maybe he feels like you do not trust him and you are always asking him for information. Is he still affectionate to you? Is he disappearing and not telling you where he is going? Just ask yourself are there any other signs that suggest he is cheating. But most importantly sit down with him and talk to him, ask him is everything okay and tell him you are worried as he seems quite angry lately.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (26 July 2012):
 You keep asking "Where are you going?" when he leaves the house without you, and you know he is not going to work, or to the grocery or to get new tires for the car....
IF he continues to not have suitable answers for that question... then you say, "Geeeesh, honey, I suppose that you might be going out to have nik-nik, or romancing with some OTHER tart.... and I find that unacceptable."
IF you can't get past this... then your baby has an ass for a father and YOU have chosen the wrong man to spawn your child.... Either way, get away from him and get a REAL, NICE guy to hang around with and make babies in the future....
Good luck...
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