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writes:Hey everyone here is my problem, two months ago I met this girl who is a friend of my cousin and I felt something when I first met her. We Started messaging and I got to know her well. I really like her now because of her personality and i think she is gorgeous. she told me we should hang out again and get to know each other better and I agreed.we made from plans but unfortunately we have both been busy so we havent gotten to hang out. I need to know if she might like me. I have told her she's pretty and I called her gorgeous and she said "aww thanks :)" she uses smilies a lot when we message and I think she might like me back but I don't think I can take rejection from her I just like her a lot so I don't want to freak her out by just telling her I really like her. I want to be sure that she likes me because I really think she's special and summer is almost over and she goes to another school I don't want another guy to take her first.how can i know if she likes me and are these signs that she likes me? If she does like me, how should I tell her my feelings? Thanks!!
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (26 July 2012):
 I would say that you need to find a way to spend time together. If you like someone, you won't let the fact you're busy get in the way. You must find the time to get together, so you can see if you're really compatible and like one another. Do you know what her interests are? Is she in any sports or activities? My advice is take a lot of interest in what she does so she knows you are interested. I would ask her if she could meet up somewhere for a movie and burger or something. Talk about school and what her interests are to see if you can find out more about her. School can be a busy time too, but there are a lot of activities where you could meet up and hang out. If she continues to be receptive, just make sure you keep communicating with her. When guys break the communication, girls think you're not interested anymore. That doesn't mean you have to communicate 24 hours a day, but let her know daily or every few days you are thinking of her or are interested in her by asking how she is and what is going on in her life.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 July 2012):
 Nobody on here is going to be able to confirm if she likes you or not, it is only her that has the answer. So far the signs are good, you have both kept in contact, and she has suggested meeting up which means she is keen to hang out with you so it is a good sign. But you just cannot rush these things, and I think you should just take things as they come. I would suggest hanging out a couple of times and getting to know each other face to face before actually expecting anything more. Just do not over think the situation, all the signs here are good, but again it could be friendship she wants. If you like her I would just tell her you like her and you are interested in hanging out more and getting to know each other more and see what she thinks.
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