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writes:Hi, iam 25 years old married and have a kid,my husband is not interested in doing any sex with me...Nor will he discuss any matters to me.I saw some SMS in his mobile , which is related to a girl. I think he has another affair, if i ask him, he ignores my question.Recently i joined a new company...where i saw a co worker, he was a good friend of mine first,i also like his character. he saw me always dull and took me once for coffee, there i felt like saying to him that i am in love with him...But he did not replyMaybe he was thinking because i am married and he is not? I know he talks to me on phone very sexily, and wants to have sexy with me, but i need both caring and love from him,Is what I am doing it correct, or this cheating, or is he cheating me.He tells that our relationship will continue until he has a wife....should i go with him and enjoy????
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reader, Atsweet1  +, writes (5 August 2012):
 Okay so Two or three things can occur
1 you and husband cheat on each other and stay together
2 you be with side friend and sex and cheat
3 you cheat with side friend divorce cheating husband and marry side friend live happily ever after
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 July 2012):
 It is clear that your marriage is not working out. It is time to sit down with your husband and tell him you are not happy, give him a chance to either work on things or else tell him it is over as you need love and support from him and also intimacy.
Yes what you are doing with this co worker is wrong, you may not have physically cheated on your husband but you have emotionally. It sounds to me like this man is not right for you either. He sees you as an easy target, you are married and unhappy and he is looking for sex. He does not want a relationship with you, only a bit of fun. So I would not get involved with him.
Don't get me wrong there are plenty of men out there who are decent men and who will give you the love and care that all women want but it is never going to happen unless you get out of the marriage you are in and start living your life again, you are to young to be stuck in a miserable marriage where it is clearly making you very unhappy.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (26 July 2012):
 When you talk sexy with him you are already having an affair. There is a communication shut down in your marriage. When one spouse lives a double life it's difficult, when both do it then your marriage is just a shell. You can't confront and accuse your husband anything, just tell your husband without good communication the marriage won't survive and you are better off separated. I would not stoop so low like your husband to have an affair. Your husband is not interested in you but I guarantee you most men are, but only something casual as you are still married. You as a unhappy married woman are the perfect target for men who want only sex because they don't have reasons to commit since you are still married. If you want the whole package of a man you have to let go of the unsatisfactory marriage, find out what you want in a man then open your heart to let that man in.
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