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How have I changed so much since I went to college?

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Question - (18 July 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How is it even possible that I went to university, hating children, relationships and animals (especially dogs). Now after being there one year I am completely opposite to that! I'm looking to buy myself a little puppy, volunteer with children and I'm seeing someone, which I actually hope it does turn into a relationship.

I'm so surprised that I don't hate that stuff anymore and actually instead it makes me happy, how is that possible? Nobody has influenced me whilst i've been there i don't think, so i can't make sense of it. Any advice? It's not just this, I have changed my views on so much other stuff as well, it's as if my mind set has been swapped with some romantic loving, laid back fun girl....HOW?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (18 July 2012):

It's called life, and you're living it. Things change, feelings change, attitudes change.

It's perfectly normal to feel the way you do, and mature the way you've done.

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A female reader, BondGirl72 United States +, writes (18 July 2012):

BondGirl72 agony auntPeople change a lot when they get out of high school and sometimes even after that. That is why sometimes kids are encouraged not to do certain things when they could later regret it. As you age, every year brings different ways of seeing things and new experiences. This helps you mature/continue to change and improve your life.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (18 July 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntIt's called growing up..... maturing...

what we want at 20 is not what we want at 25

what we want at 25 is often not what we want at 30....

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