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writes:I've been talking and getting to know this girl for a few weeks now and we've just recently told each other that we like each other....everything was great for the first week and now she is ignoring my texts(we used to talk everyday 24/7) or if she text back it would be like 8 hrs later and i know for a fact she's just ignoring me cause she text everyone back and not me....my friends are telling me to stop texting her first and wait to see if she would talk to me. Is that what I should do?
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reader, Angel S +, writes (18 July 2012):
 Yes, I have been in many of these situations myself. I agree with everyone else, your friends are right just stop texting her. Nine times out of ten when I have done this the guy has always ended up texting me again.
Although I do also agree with 'Rose red 09' if she is ignoring you then she isn't ebing very considerate to your feelings especially when you have both told each other there is some sort of attraction there. She doesn't really seem deserving of you.
Stop texting, see if she replys after some distance...
Good Luck!
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (18 July 2012):
 I am not sure why some girls/people do this. I love it when my boyfriend sends me texts/emails...it just makes me happy. I am not sure what is going on with her, but I agree with your friends. Stop texting for awhile and see how she reacts. She could be a little intimidated by all of the communication. I am not sure why because you said you communicated like that in the past. I would ignore her for awhile, go have fun with your friends, and see what happens. I know it is hard not to text someone when you really want to, but this might be just what she needs. Don't make things so easy for her and don't chase her as much. Let her come to you.
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reader, BeBlessed  +, writes (18 July 2012):
 yep your friends are right. the more you txt her, it looks needy.
just wait for her, she might be unsure if this what she wants to do since she pulling this on you so early in the relationship..just give her time and space to think because if she id unsurs about you and still making up her mind youl put her off by txting to much. the more you txt isnt going to make her answer any faster.
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reader, Rose_red_09 +, writes (18 July 2012):
Your friends are right. In the first few weeks of liking each other, there is always a flurry of texts but the fact that she isn't really bothering at all isn't the best sign. Stop texting her, wait and see if she texts you at all.
And if she is ignoring you as you say, is she really the one for you?? Don't you deserve better? I know it's hard when you like someone but it's best to wait for a person who is deserving of you.
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