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writes:I was in a long distance relatioship with a guy who was really good to me and my family. He would travel to see me just about every weekend. We were content together, he enjoyed my grandchildren and my adult children got along with him very well. He was very affectionate, funny, giving and intelligent. I felt comfortable with him. We dated a year and then all of a sudden he would get an attitude when I asked him was he coming to see me. I also went to see him as well. We would talk on the phone like clockwork. In the morning, through out the day and now he won't call me or answer his phone. He called me recently to tell me that he is frequently in the pool room and watches movies and always thinking of me, but he won't answer his phone or call me when he says he will. totally out of character. now I am left with hurt feelings and confused...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 July 2012):
 It sounds to me like maybe he met someone locally…. Sadly that often happens with LDRS that are not working towards ending the LDR…
Do you still see him on the weekends???
have you asked him what's changed?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 July 2012):
 There really is only one way you can go about this and that is to talk to him, if he has suddenly changed in behaviour then there must be some reason and he just does not want to share that reason. But you are both adults therefore you both need to sit down and talk about things and see what has went wrong. Did you both have plans to be closer to each other in the future? If you never then maybe he has just gotten fed up with having a part time relationship, obviously I don't know the answer therefore you just need to sit down with him and ask him what exactly the problem is.
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