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writes:Hi i am 23 years old and im Bisexual and im a relationship with a Girl but she has a husband she has a girl and a guy and i cant quit cheating on her cause i feel left out shes got both and i only have one i dont think its fair please tell me what i should do im despritely in need for some help oh and i get pushed into cheating very easly i have a problem saying no please help me?????? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2012): I was in the same situation and I just got out. It is hard, but there are many people involved. For the sake of the child, leave. I had too also. It's rough and not easy, but just think of the consequences
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2012): Hi again,
Not only you need to leave her, you also need to not answer any call/email/text from her after. I know it's going to be difficult but think about your son. Do you want to offer him a life with stable parents or not? The partner who will be around your kid has to be a good, balanced one. It's going to take a lot of courage but you can do this. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks u both and in a way i agree ive left her several times and everytime i do she comes crying and im a sucker for tears last time she come crying she purposed to me it seems like shes not even married cause thay never do nothing together besides on the weekends we on the other hand do everything together when shes not working ive been in this for 2 years now and ive got a 3 year old son and i dont think its healthy for me or my son ut i love this woman her husband not so much but i love her to death and would do anything for her and cant emagine my life with out her her and her husband help me out alot but somedays im not happy but other days i am we fight almost everyday so im pretty much unhappy every day when we do fight
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2012): I agree with the previous poster. My advice would also be "get out of this relationship" before it gets ugly and bloody. You're getting hurt and wasting your time, someone like that will leave you with emotional scars... I know it is easier said than done but you will save yourself a lot of trouble by leaving her. Good luck!
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reader, Angel S  +, writes (18 July 2012):
 Your only 23 years of age, and the relationship you want to be in is not a healthy one. Cheating with this girl is not the best option for anyone involved, she is married and has several partners where everybody involved including you is getting hurt. Because of her marital status she can never be truely exclusive to you are your girlfriend or partner because she is tied up in different relationships which she would have to break out of. The whole set up can cause for a very messy end. I do not know of the girl in question but I can't imagine someone with a cheating record and several partners is worth your time. You are so young please take a step back and think about this.
Xo xo
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