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writes:So, I've been on two dates with a girl now, last week Sunday and Friday this week. The first was good, walk and coffee, last around 4 hours.Second we played snooker, then had dinner, Chinese, her favourite. I chose the second, she did the first date.We get along okay, I am not good at dating yet, however we haven't been physically attached so much, I tried, not sure she did loads!Anyway, we texted we really loved our times together, this was on Friday. I haven't texted back, neither has she, she said she was going to be working until Tuesday when she'll be free.I texted last, should I text seeing how she is and proposing we do something on Tuesday (Valentines!) or wait for her to text?I'm fully willing to continue seeing her, but I'd like to know if she is also keen, hence she should text seeing how i am.... :(What should I do? Please help folk!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all, she accepted! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2012): If you are interested you call. Ask her if she is free and wants to hang out again. You have nothing to lose. Basically if she is not interested you will get the picture sooner or later, right now you sound like you aren't being over the top actually you are maybe holding back. Make your position clear, you like her , you're interested and does she want to hang out. None of this, holding back putting the pressure on her. Girls like to be chased, don't play it vague.
Goodluck!
PS yes it is scary to call, but that is the thing about life, you need to do those scary things or else you will never get anywhere! You'll be fine :)
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (12 February 2012):
 I definitely agree that you should give her a call and see if she would want to go out on valentine's day. It sounds to me that she is hinting on it and is waiting for you to ask. She will be far happier if you come out and ask.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2012): I would send a text asking her what her plans are for the week and if she would like to meet up for lunch/coffee/do something fun, whatever, but you don't necessarily need to say 'what should we do for valentines day'.See how she responds first and if she has plans or if she suggests something to do on valentines. Obviously it would be wonderful if you two could do something together on such a romantic day, but if you have only been on two dates so far (even if things have been going really well) it might be too soon and too much pressure to have a special valentines day celebration. try think of something casual that acknowledges the day, but doesn't make too much of a big deal about it if you aren't sure.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (12 February 2012):
 You should STOP texting and CALL her. You want to keep seeing her? Call to ask her out on Valentines day.
The both of you texted two days ago. Texting is for those in an established relationship to touch base. It is not to be for a guy who's interested in pursuing a new relationship with a woman.
So stop typing and start calling!
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