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writes:Hey guyzMy ex gf has kinda "bad" photos of me and i have some of her. We broke up on pretty messy terms because she cheated and lied about it but i feel really uneasy about her having those pictures. Should i keep hers archived, hidden on some disc in case she ever tries to blackmail me? I have asked her to delete them and ill delete hers but she sorta ignored that and said i can keep her pictures if i want and that its my decision.I have a new girlfriend now and i feel really guilty.There's no guarantee she would delete them even if she says she will. Maybe eventually when she finds another guy to screw over she'll delete them then. Its sorta complicated :SHelp is appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionawesome thanks guys, yeah theyre on a disc compressed and password protected in a case and maybe melt it shut somehow for good measure haha. she wouldnt release them i dont think but then again how would i know? i wouldnt release hers. i just dont like how she has the power to reveal me to whoever whenever, i dont even want her seeing, feels like ive lost some self respect.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (12 February 2012):
 Agree with Cerberus 100%. I highly doubt she'd release your pictures on the internet, especially since she was the one who cheated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2012): I think it's more important you put them somewhere your new girlfriend doesn't think you are still looking at them.
Burn them onto a disc and put them somewhere in your parents attic. Maybe in the box of your old toys or something.
Don't worry about the whole blackmail thing. You only have to say you still have them to prevent that, you shouldn't actually ever release them publicly, that would just make you a douche too regardless of what she does with yours.
Keep them so that maybe in 20 years time you take them out and remember what she used to look like hehe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2012): If it makes you feel any better, there are plenty of guys in the same situation as you're in.
Also remember that you're a guy, and no one would really care about your naked photos if they get spread around. It's much worse for girls than it is for boys.
Hope that helps a bit at least.
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