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writes:Basically, I've known this boy for months and i met him from a boy who i was seeing, the night i met him my best friend slept with him. About 7 months later, he messaged me on Facebook and we got talking and meeting up, i haven't told anyone this especially my best friend, but she wouldn't care anyway because she was drunk when it happened with them two.. anyway, he asked me if he could come round on the Saturday and i said yeah sure, but Friday night i told him my sisters down and she wanted to go shopping with me, so i told him and he was abit cheesed off (i would be too), but he was ok with me. He was even going to take me out on valentines day for a meal, and i asked him if it is still happening and he said 'yeah maybe'. i messaged him earlier, and he hasn't wrote back? but he's been online and writing status'.. why has he seemed to stop talking? he seemed so keen and now he doesn't? should i give up? i don't wanna be attached to him, ill get hurt. thank you!
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reader, GoodDog +, writes (13 February 2012):
 I agree with Cerberus here. If he was genuinely interested he would have asked you out to go on a proper date with him. Unless of course you had already asked him to go round to your place.
The fact that he got all moody about you cancelling your arrangement shows that he is being immature. He should realise that these things happen and accept your explanation. He still had the Valentine's Day to look forward to, so could have waited a few more days before spending time with you.
I wouldn't bother contacting him again. I'm sure you will find someone who is genuinely interested in you and won't play these silly games.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2012): He was only after sex OP and he didn't get it.
Look at his behaviour. He's shown he likes one night stands and he didn't ask you on a date or anything he asked if he could call over to your place, to be alone with you so he could bone you. When you said he couldn't all of a sudden he's pissed off and not interested.
It's pretty obvious OP really isn't it? He wanted sex, you didn't give it and now he's ignoring you. I think you know this guy is nothing but a dick.
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