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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend barely wants to hang out with me. It was totally fine the first week we were dating but now he barely responds to my texts and doesnt answer his phone when I call but if I call off of someone elses phone he answers. Im kinda scared that he is gunna break up with me but I really really like him alot but he doesnt know that. I dont know what to do. I want this relationship more than anything, he really means alot to me...Help me!
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reader, Myau  +, writes (12 February 2012):
 Sorry the sign's arnt looking good, he doesnt want you in his life, but doesnt have the guts to say goodbye.
These type of relationship's are poison and will hurt you alot in the long run.
My honest advice is to dump him and let youself move on
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reader, Babs1  +, writes (12 February 2012):
Your suffocating him. And if you've only been dating one week you can hardly call him your boyfriend. Just leave him alone and let him chase you. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? If he's not answering you its because he does not want to talk to you. So just let it go and maybe he will put in more effort, but the more you try here, the worse it'll be for you.
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reader, destinybound +, writes (12 February 2012):
First of all, take a deep breath and set the phone down. How long have you actually been together? It's normal to want to spend a lot of time with your new boyfriend, but if he doesn't require as much time as you do and if you start to lay it on too thick, it will turn him off. I would just stop contacting him all together. This will catch his attention because you've suddenly stopped contacting him, and that will get him wondering what you're up to. Turn your phone off, stuff it in your couch, leave it in your car, do whatever you need to to ensure that you do not contact him. Let him contact you first.
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