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writes:I need help on what to do, My girlfriend is being distance I know she's usually quite distance anyway but more recently she's been more distance, she's at college while I'm at home. I don't suspect she's cheating as she isn't the kind to do that.It's just the fact I can never seem to get ahold of her, due to her breaking her phone, her laptop charger is broke somewhat and only charges every now and again. I know she's working a lot as well as college. But I never get to speak to her recently,see I don't know if this is due to her not wanting to talk to me,or if her laptop charger is actually broke now,which in my opin ion if she wanted/cared to talk to me she'd replace it?We've been dating for almost 18 months now. We argue a lot but it's more about stupid little stuff which we sort out. So recently since we found out I needed a life changing operation which could of went either way, she was more distance, see this hurt me as I thought she'd be there more for me, but I guess she's scared so she runs away from the problem as most people at 18 don't know how to deal with the situation. Moving forward, on thursday I had my operation, and I'll find out with my blood test results if they managed to do what they needed to do, it's now Sunday and I've still not heard from my girlfriend. Needless to say I'm heartbroke, I know my girlfriend is quite distance and I expect it somewhat but I'd thought she'd try and contact me somehow, I know she was worried because the day before I went for my operation she was saying she's going to be sick to her stomach all thursday, also she worried a lot if she thinks something bad happens she'll self half. Now I'm also worried she did something bad to harm herself.So my question is I guess,should I contact her the old fashion way, via letter? Or should I stop chasing and see if she cares enough to try to contact me? Reply to this Question
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reader, jashey  +, writes (12 February 2012):
You should wait for her call or other replies... if she wants to contact you she may use other things like went to cafe and email you from there.. or call you from her friends phone.. but she's doing nothing beside making excuses of broken chargers or cell phones .... U stop worring about her and move on boy
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