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writes:Ok so my boyfriend is getting out of jail this month and I've been right by his side the way thro it. Now there's rumors about me but the things their saying I never did. We broke up for 2 weeks then got back together. But while we were broken up me and this guy kissed and we were kinda talkn but it was nithing serious. That's all that happend between us. When me and my boyfriend got back together I made sure things were over between us. One night we were at a party and he tried kissing me but and he git pissed and the next day I started hearing rummors about me. My boyfriend wabts to confront him and find out if the rumors are true. I know when he confronts him hell say their true when their not. Should I just say its true to prevent a whole bunch of problems. Cuz I know if he says its true my boyfriend will beat him up and I don't want him getting sent back to jail.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (13 February 2012):
 @Sage...lmao!
@OP
How do you know for certain that this guy will lie? You don't.
Remind your boyfriend that whatever happened with this other guy, happened while you two were broke up. Thus he has no reason, right to get all huffy with this guy.
As for the rumors, your boyfriend should believe you over the rumors. Why does he feel the need to go chase down your former week long fling for confirmation? Is it because you have a problem with telling the truth?
Here's what you need to do, tell your boyfriend the truth. Then tell him you won't be pleased if he tracks down this guy and questions him, because he should be taking your word for it. Also mention he doesn't need to go back to jail.
BUT, if he's the macho, hothead type (probably what landed him in jail the first place) then you can't control his actions and he's liable to return to jail for assault charges. If that happens, then you need to figure out how much longer you're going to stand by your jailbird boyfriend.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (12 February 2012):
 I'd dump the boyfriend .... and spend all my time studying for my GED.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2012): And you've stood by this violent worthless loser jailbird whom you know in advance will take someone else's word over yours because . . . ?
iAmHereToHelpYou has already said it for me: you need to ditch both these losers; as for "boyfriend" he's such a knucklehead he's bound to end up back in the slammer no matter what you do or say or don't do or don't say.
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