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30-35,
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writes:This takes place in Virginia. I'm of legal age and my former teacher and I have a weird relationship. When I had his class he would look me up and down a lot and ask me to stay after a lot. Now I just finished having his class last semester but I come visit his class often since some of my friends now have him and struggle with the material. I try helping him understand their p.o.v. and one day me and my friend came to visit him together and she told him she didn't see him as the party type so he said when were 21 we'll all go to one together but to keep it a secret. However, he kept telling just me to stay in contact with him after I graduate and we can meet up so he could "tutor" me. But why agree to party with me too? We talked nonstop but my friend and him just have a strictly friendly friendship but me and his seems a bit more like he has an interest in me. He's in his early/almost mid twenties. And he wants me to help in his personal relationships when I'm 21 too.I'm 18 but I will not pursue him until then or for his educational skills. But I do have an interest in him.He's always been extremely helpful and friendly to me and lets me get away with a lot. I do really want to get his number since its close to graduation and I don't see the harm. He helps me with my other subjects and said he will continue to do so and also will party with me.
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reader, traeumerin242 +, writes (24 April 2012):
This just sounds like a bad idea. Waiting 3 years to actually be with someone is generally stupid because a lot happens in even one year, especially at your age. If he continues to flirt with you, he is risking his job. If he really is in his mid-twenties, he's probably also looking for someone who is really too young for him. Move on.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (23 April 2012):
 It doesn't matter if your of legal age or not, he'll still lose his teaching position and have a tarnished reputation.
To avoid that, you need to wait until after you graduate to pursue anything with him.
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