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writes:My ex split up with me in January after 1 1/2 years, and living together. We hit a rough patch for a couple of months but other then that we were very much in love, his reason he decided he didn't love me anymore.He came back from the states the other and has decided he wants me back and he loved me. We met for a few minutes to chat face to face and he said he was in love with me but wants to take it slow. That was on Wednesday. He is away for 1 week at the moment and I have received 1 text from himWhat I don't understand now is that he says he wants to take it slow, his slow is not texting or phoning at all. and I am nervous about this, at the end of the day it was HIS decision to come back into my life why treat me like this? Does this sound like the definition of a man taking it slow or being silly? I really love him but I feel I can't put myself through anymore trauma the I already have. I am trying to back off and not make any calls and texts myself now but I dunno if that is the best route . Help! xx
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (28 April 2012):
 You are afraid off getting hurt again which is completely understandable, I think you should talk to him, communication is key in any sort of relationship, ask him what he means by taking it slow and tell him you are scared of getting hurt again. Maybe he is trying to give you some space, or maybe he is playing you, it is you that needs to find out. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2012): I have just experienced this. My ex said he wanted me back, and a few days later stopped communicating with me. Turns out he went back to his other ex... He didn't tell me because he wanted to string me along for while in case he changed his mind again. This may not be the case for you, but I suggest to you, that you know what he is like. Is it normal for him to not communicate for days?
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