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writes:i've been seeing someone who is way more experienced than me sexually and most of his past girls have been very experienced and are into casual sex. it makes me feel like i'm just another conquest and i am curious if he is interested in me just because i'm not like his usual girls. are guys more interested in pursuing girls who are less sexually experienced than them? Reply to this Question
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reader, MsSadie  +, writes (23 April 2012):
 That's the kind of guy I dated when I lost my virginity. In my case, yes, I was just another conquest.
With this type of scenario, I don't think there's any general rule of thumb. The only way to figure out if he has romantic feelings for you is to not have sex with him right away. If he presses you for it, you have your answer.
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reader, Thisiscrazy  +, writes (23 April 2012):
 If you feel that already then walk away huni you know your not competing but if you get vibe from him later
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 April 2012):
 I agree with Cerberus, TAKE your time getting to know this guy WITHOUT having sex with him. If he is OK with waiting on you to be ready he might not be looking for a conquest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2012): *keep sex out
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2012): Why not sleep with him and find out? Haha I'm only joking don't do that.
OP the only way you'll know is by doing what most girls in your situation do. Date him but keep out of equation until he's proven he's interested in you and not just your body.
As far as experience goes, that doesn't really matter in any context, if he likes you it won't matter and if he just wants another notch on his bed post it won't matter either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2012): Are inexperienced girls attractive? YES. Not to all guys, but to quite a few. It's pretty normal. Experienced guys are more attractive to lots of girls, and this is just the natural other side of that principle. Yes, I think you are probably just another conquest to him. If you're not, then MAKE HIM WAIT A WHILE and get to know you and prove it. If you can't get him without sex, then you won't keep him with sex very long once you give it to him anyway.Truthfully I think you will probably end up sleeping with him and being a conquest once you allow yourself to consider the possibility. I don't mean to insult you but a lot of real world experience says this is how it will play out. People don't fall for someone because they are right for them, they fall for whoever they give themselves the chance to fall for. Right now you are in the process of giving yourself the chance to fall for this guy instead of some other guy who is more like you.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (23 April 2012):
 Have you tried talking to him about how you feel?
He could provide you with that answer you seek.
I think guys are all different and we cannot just label or narrow them down into a category.
Some guys like well behaved girls others prefer those who had experience, and some dont care either way.
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