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writes: So I have been dating my gf for like a year and a half now... About 4months into the relationship I did somthing with my best friend. I hung out at her house and we got a little bit close. We didn't kiss or anything but I was touching up on her and I was able to touch pubic area slightly though... I have done stuff before with my best friend and my gf forgave me once already so this time I didn't want to screw it up but I did again. I told myself that I was never going to tell my gf and just forget about it.. Ever since then I kept distance from my best friend and put all my attention to my gf...we have been going great and I don't want to ruin anything...I feel really guilty about what I did and I want to tell her but I'm scared she will leave me or see me in a horrible way..I need help what should I do?
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reader, Wisdom +, writes (24 April 2012):
Do you want to stay with the GF or the BF?
Ask yourself this, If you are staying with the GF are you going to touch up your BF again? It sounds like it happend a long long time ago and nothing has happended since?
If that is the case then you are only telling your GF to make yourself feel better, Its only going to hurt her. NOw whilst I belive in honesty in realitonsips you need to ask yourself why are you bringing it up now? Is it going to do anything but make you feel better? What about her?
Good luck
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