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The sex was great when we first met, now he's not interested

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Question - (25 October 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 October 2011)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I had GREAT sex when we 1st met...but we were just each others booty call. After a long distance relationship of only daily talk and text we are together again after a year and in a serious, committed and monogamous relationship. I know he loves me and wants to be with only me, without a doubt, however, he doesn't want to have sex! He says it is not me, that he wants me. but he doesn't feel sexual or need sex. What is wrong? I have tried and tried to explain my feelings on this and to let him know I want to have sex with him, that I need to have sex with him. He says he wants it to be "just right". What and when is just right? we have had sex 3 times in a month, and then it was just a quickie! Help me understand please? I love and adore this man except for this problem.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (26 October 2011):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntMaybe he's experiencing anxiety because his WIFE told him, expressly, not to fool around with other girls!!!!!

Good luck....

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