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anonymous
writes:i was hurt by a very close friend of mine,for me it was utter betrayal,and we just stopped contacting each other for some time(about 4 months),yesterday i received a very weird text message from her boyfriend,out of the blue,saying :are you still mad at us?i will never feel bad for you,have a nice day..i haven't contacted them in a very long time,nor am i even thinking about them.i ignored the message and went on with my day,but i just can't help but think what do they want? what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2011): Cryptic message.
I've decided to cut off all toxic/dysfunctional relationships. This has been a hard choice/decision. It has meant ignoring phone calls, emails and even sms.
Bec of the betrayal I suggest u decide whether u want/need these people in your life.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (25 October 2011):
 I"m not sure what "i will never feel bad for you" means but if it's NOT being translated well, then maybe they are trying to make up???
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 October 2011):
 Well that wasn't the friendliest of messages to send you really looking at it. It is really hard to tell what they wanted. I guess it is up to you now weather you just ignore it and get on with your life or ask them what it is that they want, that's your decision to make!
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (25 October 2011):
 Well at the beginging of the year i fell out with all my friends because of things like betrayal and stuff and like you 2 months after i droped all contact with them i got a similar message on facebook out of the blue, asking how i was and if i was still mad at them.
I then found out the next day that the guy who sent the message was taking the mick out of me at school and laughing because he said i was that sad to reply.
If you thought the message came across as weird then your not wrong go on your insinct (it sounded weird to me).
Don't reply back if they care about you that much and know where you live then nothing is stopping them from coming round and apolgizeing is it?
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