A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Guys, I don't know why this is happening, I did my best to make this go away, the nervous behaviour, the fear. The words., (the lack of confidence) around women, especially women that I like, the way I feel for them it makes me feel so small, I am longing, lusting and I want nothing more than be with woman I love and want to be with forever.. but how can I do that if I'm not having any girlfriend.. why am I not having a girlfriend,it's because of this fear of talking to woman and not knowing the way to tell a person how I feel so she can give me a chance, everytime I ran into any girl I like I just greed her or not say anything because I feel I might say the wrong things. In the past I use to say whats on my mind to girls and show them how I feel, but I kept being rejected and being disfigured and ever since I told myself I'll never know what woman want. Ive never had a girlfriend and I'm still a virgin. I desire a woman I love in my life, I don't know how to connect with woman emotionally, please help me.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 October 2011):
 You just need to be yourself with women and at the moment you have no self confidence. I understand that you may have been rejected in the past but that is all part of life and you should have kept fighting and telling yourself that you could do it. Instead you let it ruin your self esteem and now you are scared of even opening your mouth in case of rejection.
There are lots of people in the world in the same situation as you. But you just need to build up your confidence and learn to love yourself. Tell yourself all the good qualities you have to offer and believe in yourself. Take small steps in talking to girls. Just start off by greeting them and asking how they are and remember a smile is always a great thing. Take it in small steps start asking questions about them get to know them and take it slowly. It will come to you eventually. Just don't give up.
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