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writes:Hi all,After 3 weeks of no contact with my ex boyfriend, I texted him this afternoon:Me: Hey how are you?Ex: Im chill and u?Me: Im good, long time no speak!It's now 2 AM over here and he still hasn't replied to my last txt message. It's driving me crazy. I keep wondering if he's with another girl right now!?I went no contact for 3 weeks because I wanted him back.-So does his silence mean he is over me?Should I try to contact him again next week? He might be expecting me to call and beg like I did before. But I REFUSE!-Please advise what I can do to get him to like me again or is it useless now?-Shall I try again next week?Thank you for your help!X
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDear all,Thank you for taking time to read my post and replying. It's highly appreciated!I am being a loser right now. I couldn't fight the urge to call him today. He picked up.. I asked him why didn't he reply to my msg? He just went silent. He asked how I was doing and nothing special.He will be on a holiday ALONE to Costa Rica next week for 6 weeks. I think he dumped me because he wanted to cheat on me on his vacation. He has no control over himself when he is drunk. He would take any girl he want. Because I saw a picture of him pretending to kiss another girl. He said he was sorry. And that was it -_-He was planning to go to Costa Rica before but he didn't go finally, when we had a fight back then he said to me: I would NEVER cheat on you in Costa Rica. I would find a way to get rid of you before I leave. But now he changed he says that's not it? It's my behavior?Any way..we didn't talk about that stuff on the phone. Just normal things and Im complaining about life. I asked him if he is seeing someone else but he got irritated and says NO!He asked if I have a new bf I said no and he was being jealous that I went on a 2 day trip short with my male friend. Because I was sad.I asked him maybe we could have a drink before you go to Costa Rica ALONE. He told me he would call me tonight.:(
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (3 December 2011):
 There could be many reasons why he hasnt contact you.
It does not necessarily involve him being with another girl.
You dont know anything until you speak to him so dont assume anything.
If i was you i'd wait until he replies and then continue msging and see if he'd like to meet up to go out.
If after that he doesnt show any interest it just means he has moved on in his mind and you too should move on.
I hope this helps!
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reader, chickpea2011  +, writes (3 December 2011):
 Dear friend,
I am going to be honest with you.... If he has not contact you in 3 weeks, it's pretty much over?....
Now, what happened 3 weeks ago? Is there any reason why he hasn't contact you? How long have you been together?
I am sorry that you are feeling sad about your situation. If you feel you need to talk to him, you could call/text and ask if you guys can talk?
It's unfair that he doesn't give you any explanation, and just ignore you. I wouldn't keep my hopes up, but if you need to talk to move on, you have the right to know the truth....
It's better to know what's going on with him, and if he's not interested in you, it's better to know, instead of wondering????... Right?
Be strong... Hole you get your answers
Good luck!
Ps: let's us know how you are doing, so we can give you further advice..
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