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writes: I have been seeing this guy for around a month now and still in the seeing each other stage though not sure exactly what this means are we exclusive or not, does it mean we one step away from bf and gf? What does seeing someone mean to you? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2011): To my friends they have different meanings I know some who treat it as being exclusive but nothing official and should they meet someone else they like they'd call it off while others will go on dates with other people even if they are in the "seeing someone" stage. It is best to ask him as if he is seeing other people and that is not what you want then the only way you'll now is by asking him. Best of luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI still think it a bit early to be having that kind of conversation with him we only been seeing each other for a month I'm scared if I bring it up he will freak out
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI still think it a bit early to be having that kind of conversation with him we only been seeing each other for a month I'm scared if I bring it up he will freak out
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (4 December 2011):
Seeing each other is- You're into each other, but there are no boundaries or lines. Actually, you're allowed to see more than just each other. It's the gray confusing area before making it official. Somewhere you don't want to linger in for too long.
Although, I would still ask him what "seeing each other" is in his opinion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2011): I feel that it means exculisivity, but I know others who think of it as meaning "I'm interested, but still looking". You really need to find out what he feels it means, and what it means to you. If I was you I would just ask him where you stand with him, and what he thinks your relationship is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2011): good question. i'm confused over it. help agonies my dumbfounded mind is stomped.
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (4 December 2011):
To me it means exclusivity, but I'm a bit old-fashioned.
What is important, is what it means to you and whether it means the same thing to your man.
Why not ask him what he feels your relationship is?
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