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writes:Hello everyone. This is not really a dilemma but just some suggestions. I've been with my girlfriend for 20 months and the most we have ever done is making out. There has been no like touching of boobs or anything private due to her morals which i respect. I was just wondering what i could do to spice up our relationship without actually going to the private zone? any help would be nice :). Thank you :D. Oh yes we are both 17.
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reader, auntyR  +, writes (3 December 2011):
massage is very good. You can be intimate with eachother without actually being sexual.
If you do want alittle bit more of a kick and if she is ok with it try dry humping. I know it sounds awful, but while you make out with eachother just rub against eachother with your clothes on. If she does not want to take things to that area then don't do it.
Also try be spontaneous and take her out on a special date, think of something that she has always wanted to do or somewhere she wants to go and organise it for her. A little bit of old fashioned romance is always a good way to spice your love life off. the kisses will be worth it.
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reader, Jackalus +, writes (3 December 2011):
Don't rush anything mate, time is the best thing to give it, I spent all of Wednesday making out with my girlfriend and I was touching her boobs and stuff and then the next day she broke up with me. The deeper you go the harder it is to get out
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reader, bluecow +, writes (3 December 2011):
 What about massage?
I'm not suggesting you get butt naked, but what about a sensual back , foot, neck, or head massage?
Warm oils and the chance to explore each others bodies a bit without going near the boobs, or genitals?
Would this be too much for her?
I'm really pleased you are accepting of her boundaries, its shows a maturity beyond your age.
How do you think she would feel about reading some sexy fiction together? or whispering something sexy in her ear while your making out?
Naturally you dont want her to feel that you are pressuring her into something she doesnt want, but if her only boundaries are the no-touching then there is alot of sexy things you could do.
Would she accept you laying down together to make out... fully clothed and hands only in the appropriate places. Laying stretched out with someone while you kiss is very sexy, and would make you both feel closer wilst maintaining those boundaries.
Sorry if I havent been much help. xx
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reader, Starlights +, writes (3 December 2011):
 Thats wonderful you respect your girlfriend i like that :)
As you guys are only "kissing" and she doesnt like to be touched in any private zone is i guess only a limited number of ways "to spice it up".
If i was in your situation i'd use food. Sounds odd but its the only thing i can really see as "spicing it up" find something you both enjoy the taste of and share via kissing or dab a little on her neck ;)
I am sure she will love it! and oh massagess too with oils are very sensual and relaxing.
Hope this helps!
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