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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for four years and I do love him loads, but have recently starting feeling lust for a boy who is goes to my night school. I would never cheat on my bf but I can't stop thinking about this boy in a sexual way. I don't know what this means, or what I am supposed to do to make it go away? Reply to this Question
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reader, Nonamus  +, writes (4 December 2011):
You are pretty young. Have you had any other boyfriends besides your current one? Maybe you and your bf need to take a break and see other people. If its true love, you will go back together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2011): Stop building on the lust thoughts and push such thoughts out. Whenever you do get them, take out phone and look over photos of your BF, recall good times.
Text BF a love note. Carry love letters he has written. If he hasn't, ask him you would like a letter or note of the reasons he adores and appreciates about you. ;)
We are Masters over our bodies and minds; not the other way around.
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reader, hpoco  +, writes (3 December 2011):
 Sometimes, if you work really hard to avoid certain thoughts and feelings it makes them stronger. Maybe you should allow the lust to come and go. Definitely distance yourself from him during class and don't form a relationship with him, but its harmless to have a crush from afar. You're young, and its normal. It doesn't make you a bad person or mean that you are going to cheat. You won't cheat if you don't want to. Its fine to fantasize a little and admire someone else. Just remember how much you love your boyfriend and be grateful for your relationship.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (3 December 2011):
 Why not try spicing things up with your bf? Take all the lust you have inside and focus it on your man. Guarenteed he'll love it!!!
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