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writes:I know that I am just another girl asking the infamous question "does he like me?" but I am really confused. I met a guy at work two years ago, and we have since then become really good friends. I would even consider him to be one of my two best friends.My mom, sister and my friend all think he likes me , but they don't know him like I know him.He and I hold hands a lot, and hug at random intervals, but the thing is.. he seems to do that with all his friends (Or at least whenever I'm around he does). He is a very "touchy-feely" person, and obviously isn't shy. However, he joined the Army National Guard back in August. He is currently on leave for the holidays, and I am the first person he called when he came back. I've been with him everyday since he came back and he hasn't hung out with anyone but me and his family. He just got his Eagle Scout Award yesterday and I was the only one of his friends that was invited and afterward, he begged me to visit him at his house. He and I are always joking around and making faces at each other. We "play fight" a lot, and we like a lot of the same things. He never ceases to make me laugh and he always seems to have a smile when we are together (except when we have our "face-making" moments) etc etc. However, he has never tried to kiss me or anything more than hugging and holding hands. I don't know if it's because he doesn't want to, or if he thinks I don't want to.Anyway, if it weren't for the fact that he seems to treat his other friends to same way, I would be sure that he liked me back. But I'm not sure, and it's driving me crazy. This was a little longer than I was expecting, but any thoughts and opinions would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): I think he's gay.If you have any type of good looks his balls would be blue by now.I couldn't go that long liking someone and not want to do something with her.If you like him romantically he needs to see your sexy side .I would dress accentuating the positive.Act like he's the man tough and strong not in a goofy way but a little more serious like you admire him.Turn him on a little you know how subtly .He will react like a man and go for it or he's gay.We are not like girls we don't discriminate between friends and lovers.We would do a friend if she is good looking.You girls are the ones that put us in friend zone forever. Our only hold back is if she is really fat or ugly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers guys. I realize he is the only one that can tell me how he really feels. I just wanted to get some opinions before I tell him how I feel.
oldersister, he DID date another girl, but the relationship was very short and almost seemed non-existent. And he was dating a girl when we met, but they broke up soon after.
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reader, kleinie  +, writes (21 December 2009):
Live life to the fullest and have no regrets. Tell him how you feel, you may be rejected but atleast you will know
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reader, Xolani  +, writes (21 December 2009):
 The best way would be to tell him about your deep feelings towards him. Then take it from there....
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