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anonymous
writes:i want to get eaten out. but idk how it feels. or even if i should let my boyfriend do it.it doesn't bother me that he is licking and sucking my vagina. but im going to have to kiss him after. .
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reader, Davethegamer +, writes (25 December 2009):
i enjoy the variety of tastes and smells as long as they aren't overwhelming. u shouldnt have anything to worry about if he kisses u after, unless it grosses u out but when i had a GF that kissed me after oral i loved how warm and soft her lips were maybe could enjoy the same
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reader, scrdofyou +, writes (22 December 2009):
 I dont know why it would bother people, I mean unless you dont take care of yourself or something and you're not so clean down there.
If you keep up with your hygiene, most of the time you taste nothing at all.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (22 December 2009):
 Ah... this is actually pretty common especially with the genders switched around. How many guys kiss the girl after she has given oral and hasn't cleaned up by gargling with bleach? Be honest.
Other way around, people seem to expect women to be less bothered about it. But why should she?
I would suggest however that you accept that sex is dirty. Did you kiss him? Swap saliva? Lick his dead skin cells from his body including all the germs and bacteria? EWH! Cooties!
But that is sex. It is spreading your salive on their skin and swallowing everything that is on it. It is eating his snot (blow in hanky, wank in another, tell the difference) and licking her piss hole. And the vagina is only a centimeter or so away from the anus and not all girls know to wipe down. (the things you learn when changing babies)
I suggest you get more comfortable with your own body and its fluids. It really is not different from sweat/saliva. And it will make making love more enjoyable.
And I say making love and not sex because sex is him going down on you for an orgasm. Making love is then cuddling afterwards as you enjoy the afterglow.
Nothing ruins the mood faster then one person going to the bathroom for oral hygiene afterwards.
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reader, anotherjoeshmoe +, writes (22 December 2009):
You don't know until you try... plus I think it's nice to make out with something that kisses back after I've gone down.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (22 December 2009):
 For some 46 years of sexual activity, at least 41 years of which included girlfriends or wives swallowing my cum, they rarely wanted a kiss right away.
Typically, they had already enjoyed multiple orgasms, and we both pretty much expended. Perhaps I can recall some kissing afterwards, but the sperm was already in her tummy and gone. My girls always took it all, but my sperm can't possibly hurt either of us anyway.
It never bothered me if some small amount lingered in her mouth, and I cannot recall a single woman who avoided a few kisses after I had gone down on them. When a couple are sharing each other most intimately, including exchanging sexual fluids, it would seem a bit paranoid to be so picky about this. Have a bottle of water nearby if it bothers you all that much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): I don't blame you a bit.I wouldn't want to either.I think it's just our imagination that grosses us out.It is actually one of the cleanest parts of your body.There are special cells in there that kill bacterial on contact.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): i think that if you don't want to taste yourself you shouldn't expect him to. it's just not fair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): OMG theres nothing wrong with it at all i agree with satindesire
try it out if you dont like it stick a mint or gum in ya mouth
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): i prefer not to...i keep wet wipes handy. Sorry, i DONT want to taste myself...
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reader, leogirl18  +, writes (22 December 2009):
Personally, I think my bf licking me down there doesn't feel good. It's not that he isn't good at it, its just boring. And when he does it I don't kiss him right after. Also I don't suck on him after he's been inside me. Everyone has their own thoughts and feelings on tasting their own juices, so you will figure it out. If you don't like it just tell your bf and he should respect that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): It seems pretty hypocritical to expect someone to taste you when you don't even know what you taste like. The same goes for men. If you expect someone else to do something for you, you'd better be prepared to do it for yourself first.
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reader, scrdofyou +, writes (22 December 2009):
I kissed my ex after going down on me, I was worried as well until he kissed me, then I realized it wasnt so bad :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): Its not about being comfortable with your own body or not. Im very comfortable with my body but that doesn't mean I want my juices in my mouth any more than I want my pee and poop there. Some like it, others don't. Got nothing to do with "being comfortable with your body", it's a preference.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): I kiss my bf after he does that to me, and he kisses me after I go down on him, hell I have sucked him after he was in me. We are both confortable with our bodies. BUT if you are not comfortable enough to do that yet then dont. Never do anything that you are not 100% comfortable with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): satindesire, have you tasted yourself and enjoyed it? Men don't lick their own sperm, and theres loads of women who could never imagine licking up their own juices either. I for one do not want to kiss my boyfriend after he's been down on me, unless he wipes his lips first. Also, I do not give him head if he's already been in me, because I do not like the taste of my own juices. Simple as that, I just don't like it. So to the OP: you don't have to kiss him afterwards, although you might have to tell him why you don't want it. Or just wipe his mouth with your hand and then kiss him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): okay having recently had my boyfriend go down on me and then kiss me - i can honestly say i didn't notice any difference in taste, smell etc. And the same for him when i went down on him and kissed him - he didn't seem at all effected that his bits and lips were getting action :) I would say try not to worry - enjoy the moment and if he kisses you then try, you may not be as bad as you think you are. I had worried about that too and i can't believe i ever worried now - strange :)
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reader, mai mai : D  +, writes (21 December 2009):
i agree with the other agony aunt that it is your body and that thers nothing rong with kissing him after he kissed you down there, but if you dont feel comfterball with it, then you dont have to do it, just talk to him about it and if hes not ok with it then to bad for him.
you shouldent have to do something you dont want to because of him.
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reader, rizzie +, writes (21 December 2009):
 I used to feel the same way...have you tasted urself bfor?
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