A
female
age
30-35,
*heyjustin
writes:My boyfriend is in the Army. We have been together on and off for about two years. I love him with all my heart. I am still rather young and in high school still. I dont want to make himsound bad but he has not been faithful to me. I could never cheat on him. I do exaclty what i am suppose to for this relationship but i feel i am the only one that tries, its like im dating myself. It is so hard without him but i just dont know if i should even be with him. He used to make me happy.. now all he does is hurt me. The number one thing keeping me with him is that he just went to Afghanistan for a 12 month tour. I feel obligated to stay with him...HELP??? Reply to this Question
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (21 December 2009):
 if your not happy and he hurts you then theres your answer whats the point of being with someone that makes you feel this way your young you dont have an obligation to any one but your self. look if you love this guy send him his dear john letter explain to him why your breaking up with him go into detail dont be vague thats annoying.
You can say dear johny i love you but im not happy with you any more because A B C etc and im breaking up with you if you want we can remain friends and maybe in time when you grow up and and can treat me the way i disserve to be treated there may be a future for us. byezzz and dont forget all those little hearts and stuff you want to make it as sweet as possible because the guy will be carrying an assault rifle around all day
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