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*aigeykins
writes:I work at a grocery store with a couple of pretty good looking guys. There are 2 in particular that im really interested in. The most prominent guy is Brian. He's 24 and he has a girlfriend named Amber. Amber just had a baby about a week ago by Brian. I always catch him staring at me and smiling and every time he goes to talk to me he gets called away or something. We finally got to talk yesterday and he was all smiles and he was flirting hardcore. He doesnt talk to or look at any other girl at the store like he does at me. Im only 17 but i think that there could be potential. The only obstacle is Amber and the baby. Is it wrong to like him?
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reader, Paigeykins +, writes (24 December 2009):
Paigeykins is verified as being by the original poster of the question You guys are just taking this wherever your minds can take it. Blowing it way out of proportion. Its not even as big of a deal as you guys are making it. I mean yes I like the guy but never did i say that I would go as far as sleeping with him. I have a brain of my own & I can say no. Soon567, hes not even married. Amber is his GIRLFRIEND. I HAVE taken into consideration how this would effect her & the baby. She works at the store too. Maybe i am acting 13. I mostly want to know if he likes me back or if he honestly has any interest in me at all. I saw him today as matter of fact & he came in to get whatever it was. he was in line & he was talking to the guys, smiling, laughing. I was bagging at the 2nd register towards the door. He didnt even have to look at me on his way out but he did & it was a certain look. FYI, i never even really noticed him until he made it clear that he noticed me. He asked me for my number & i didnt give it to him because of Amber. Shes my friend & i wouldnt do that. I cant help that i like the same guy that she got comfortable with.
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reader, carebare  +, writes (22 December 2009):
What kind of guy is out flirting with a 17 year old when he's got a very young child at home and a girlfriend? I think that just shows the kind of person he is and that's his choice.
You, however, can choose not to encourage his inappropriate behavior. There's nothing wrong with liking him. I would go as far as to say, even flirting is harmless as long as it's clear that nothing further is going to happen unless he's single.
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reader, ShadowGoddess231 +, writes (22 December 2009):
 Girl, you are in way over your head. Stop and think on what you are doing... I'm sorry to say that you are acting very selfish and high school-ish. If he is doing it too, then he is the same way so what do I care, you can get into trouble and sh-t like that with a older guy. I'm a married woman and if I see a sluttly ass b*tch flirting with my man, you know there is going to be hell to pay. Trust me girl you are going to regret if you go anywhere with that ass. He don't even care about his OWN child that HE helped bring into this world, that and the child's mother, the one he should be all over and not you. Yeah you can like him and have a silly little girl CRUSH on a OLDER man. So the chose is yours. Let me tell you if you do go with the f***er, you are going to be sh-t out of luck.
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reader, Paigeykins +, writes (21 December 2009):
Paigeykins is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really like him & he has made gestures towards me. He recently asked me for my number & hes done other things too. So its not a one sided thing. Ill see how things go over the next few days. I dont want to hurt anyone but things may happen.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 December 2009):
Just don't act on it. Other than that, there's nothing wrong.
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