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30-35,
*haiight
writes: My ex and I had recently broke up. We were in a long distance relationship and it was difficult. We didn't break up because of distance though. We broke up because I've given him so many chances to treat me right. He acts like he controls my life and I just hate that so much. We finally broke it off and it was sad but I've gotten so used to being hurt, it didn't really matter. Now, theres this other guy that goes to my school. He's the nicest guy ever. He likes me and treats me right and I decided to give him a chance. He asked me to be his girlfriend tonight and I couldn't say no. He's too sweet to say no to. I like him, but the thing is, I love my ex. He's the guy i LOVED. I will probably always love him, but sometimes it just sucks. I want to be able to like my new boyfriend more but I end up breaking down every night cause I know if I go back to my ex, things still won't work out. I need to move on but it seems I can't. How should I fix this?
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reader, Xolani +, writes (21 December 2009):
Sweety sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. You did yourself a big favour to let go is hardest thing but you have to stick to it no matter how hard. Just hang in there time will heal you broken heart. All the best....
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): Honey, time heals everything. I know EXACTLY what you're talking about trying to get over a bad relationship. Stay with your current, you will NOT regret it.
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