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writes:dear cupid, i want to ask this question because am not comfortable with it. i had phone sex with my girl friend who i met on the internet. we shared pictures and known each other well but we haven't see face to face. she's not a virgin and also am not. the time we had the phone sex, she was screaming and moaning when we are having it, I cum about 5 minutes and i told her. we stop and continue discussing, i asked her whether she enjoy it and she said no. i asked why she said i cum fast and I never stay up to ten minutes. we agree that we are going to do when we see each other. her fear is if we do it physical and i might leave her because i told her once i have sex with a girl, i would hate the person since i lost my virginity when i was i ten years with a girl of eighteen years. i told her these and she also told me how she lost her own.my question is if we see each other how do i satisfy her without sex? secondly is there is any way somebody can stay 30 minutes before he cum during sex or is it normal? please any answer is welcome.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (21 December 2009):
 If you follow this site, you will encounter posts where the female complains the guy takes to long. One guy even lasted over an hour. The typical female reaction to such long penetration is that they would get bored and sore.
I myself found that the best "fix" is to make sure that however long you need to have a good orgasm (Delaying it from being to fast makes it feel better, but to long and you desensitize) is also the time she needs.
The answer is "more foreplay". It is like lube during anal, when you think there is enough: add more.
And during this foreplay, keep yourself from becoming to excited. During phone sex, why did you not simply wait until she was closer? it is not like she could see right?
basically, if you need 5 minutes to get to the finish line and she needs 10, then give her a 5 minute head start.
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