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Should I call him about my accidental "calling" and let him know I'm available to date?

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Question - (21 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *ixieGwen writes:

I've been on a cpl of dates w/ this guy who is incredibly romantic (candlelit dinner on 2nd date/let me borrow his jacket for a 1wk on our 1st date),worries about what I think about everything/makes sure i make it home ok and told me hes a worrier..seems genuine...sweet.

I called him to see if he was free but he works 2 jobs/no days off.He said he'd call me if he's off this wknd(last cpl of wks hes hung out w/ me on his random day off and he never has days off).I've accidentally called him/among others and felt the need to txt him to let him know it was on accident.Im still gettin used to my new phone.He doesnt do txting but txted him instead of calling cos it was late and i was impatient.I dont want him to think im crazy and purposely calling/hanging up or whatever.I dont even know if the calls went through.I feel like i shouldve called to apologize instead of txting but i suppose its too late now?

on top of that on our first date I told him that i dont go out late - for dates..but now that i realize he works everyday and might have time after work. i kinda want to see if he'd like to get together after work for cocoa or tea or something..

but i feel if i call and tell him that...that would be pesty of me.

Should I call him to mention im free late if wants to get together sometime after work/mention the accidental calling?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009):

I agree with oldersister. The ball is in his court now...

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