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writes: my ex and i were together for over 3 years and broke up over a year ago but noone did anything so wrong..no cheating or anything..just arguments over silly thingsi contacted him a year later leaving a v-mail and he called me back a few minutes later and i explained my regrets and he said he can't jump back into this which I understood. He said we would exchange calls and then meet. We have been talking for a few months about twice a week but recently the calls seem to becoming less often..i haven't heard from him since last sunday.. He said about 2 weeks ago he knows I am making a genuine effort and maybe he needs to get his head together...I also told him this isn't an easy situation for me. I am going to back off and hope he comes around and see if he contacts me.I also find myself a little sad due to the holidays. I miss him..not just a boyfriend but being around him and i am hoping that he just needs some time and that after the holidays we will begin to see each other slowly. I know we can't just jump back into being in a relationship.Should I continue to back off? I would think he has some sort of feelings left since we are talking again and with him saying he can't jump back into this but agreeing to see me and be casual for now. He asked if anyone knew we were talking and I said my mother and he said his mothers knows as well.I am willing to give it him because I care..just a little sad during this holiday time hoping he comes around...Am i making a huge mistake?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009): Hello i dont think youre making a huge mistake but i do think if he wanted to be with you, he would. As hes only willing to be friends and the gaps between contact are getting further apart then hes not really that interested anymore. He may have someone. Leave him to call when he wants and move on x
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (21 December 2009):
 awww snff snff you kno some guy was on here complaining that the questions on here are trivial but there oh so important to the one who ask, and since i have nothing better to do because i quite drinking and its a blizzard out side. i will help you out.
If a man wants to be with you bad he will tell you he will let you kno some how some way men arent good with these things but when we want a girl bad enough we tell her and if we dont tell her either we dont want her that bad or theres a reason we cant be with her what ever the reason is and theres nothing you can do about it.
I sounds like this guy has a reason he cannot be with you it could be anything. Now stop worrying your pretty head let him go if you open your self up to new opportunity you will meet some one else who makes you feel all alive like theres butter flies in your stomach and all the presents under the tree are for you.
Break it off with him as anything other then friends he said he cant get back into a relation ship with you and he meant it if he calls he calls if he doesnt he doesnt friends dont hve to call every day.
Be strong and move on this is how life shows us where alive buy the emotions we feel good or bad, you kno the irony is theres some lonely guy out there just looking for a girl like you to walk into his life hope you find him.
have a good christmas
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